One thing that I have been forced to remember is that at the end of the day I will be held accountable to God. I will have to explain to Him why I disobeyed Him, I will have to explain to Him why I neglected my gifts, I will have to explain to Him why I sinned despite Him telling me not to, I will have to explain to Him why I ignored the Holy Spirit on more than one occasion, I will have to explain everything to Him. He isn’t going to ask me why someone else did what they did. He will ask me why I didn’t speak up when they were doing it but that’s about it.
Since we are all one body, it gets easy to focus on others. Don’t get me wrong you should always try and help others to avoid falling into sin. But when we start condemning them and constantly telling them that what they are doing is wrong, we will slowly start to fall into sin ourselves by judging them and playing God.
Sometime, it is best to Once you have shared what you know is true, leave the person to think about what you have said. We often focus so hard on trying to make the whole body perfect and then end up neglecting the part of the body that God gave you to take care of. Your life!