Not every Christian guy is the one!


Alright, so he prays for you and the more you see him, the more he encourages you to draw nearer to God. But have you ever stopped to think that maybe he is not the one? When you meet a girl who does the exact same thing you don’t start plotting to be her new best friend, you just admire her walk. So why is it different when it comes to guys?

Why are you reading in to everything that he says? Maybe he really does just like your shoes. Maybe there is nothing more to that statement. Maybe he was just raised well and is able to pay a compliment without expecting anything in return. Maybe he is the one, but not the one for you.

Maybe his purpose in your life is to show you that real men exist. Maybe he is meant to show you that there is a man worth waiting for. Maybe all he was ever meant to be was a friend.

I put the maybes in front of those points because I didn’t want to frighten you. But…maybe there is a 97% chance that he is not the one for you. There is more to marriage than engagement photos and wedding dresses. There is more to a couple than the amount of instagram likes that they get. It’s a forever kind of commitment. So take it slowly. Don’t settle out of loneliness.


2 Comments Add yours

  1. Gods Glory says:

    ❤ it…. Perhaps in our desperate effort to find love we over analyze every relationship. All relationships are temporary except our relationship with Him. I enjoyed this article.

    1. Thank you very much. I couldn’t agree more

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